1. She listens to herself and her desires
A wise woman always knows what she wants. She has formed her own scale of values, set priorities and acts in accordance with them. She will not reproach or shame herself for desires, because she understands: behind each of them there is a very definite need. Such a woman will not be annoyed and make claims to others, because she knows that no one is obliged to indulge her, but will be grateful to those who will help her dreams come true.
2. She knows how to accept the shortcomings of others
One of the main signs of wisdom is not trying to change others. Wise people respect someone else’s personal space and do not encroach on it, including trying to change something. Moreover, they will not impose their opinion or change a person against his will.
This behavior is based on the understanding that everyone has both advantages and disadvantages, and the ability to accept others. It applies to everyone without exception: spouse and children, friends and relatives, colleagues and neighbors.
3. She seeks to resolve conflicts, not create them
Her family conflicts do not leave the walls of the house, and at work, such a woman would prefer to discuss a difficult situation with a colleague face to face, rather than make it public. Before doing anything, she will carefully consider the consequences and choose the option that will least traumatize others.
A wise woman does not put up with injustice for the sake of her own peace of mind, but she also does not enter into confrontation without unnecessary need, always trying to find a constructive solution.
4. She knows how to give and receive
A wise woman does not skimp on praise and help, she gladly shares her experience and knowledge, but never pretends to “dividends”. Generosity is natural to her, as is the awareness of her worth. She willingly accepts gratitude, but does not expect her. He values himself highly, knows how to adequately respond to compliments and gifts.
She knows what she is striving for, but at the same time soberly evaluates what she has, and is grateful for it. “Always not enough” is not about her. Such a woman strives to receive and to give equally. She values comfort and does not refuse to improve the quality of life, but she will not step over her principles for the sake of money.
5. She knows how to create a balance between career and personal life.
She realizes that full-fledged realization is not a rejection of work or family, but their harmonious combination. She will not sacrifice herself to her career or home, but will competently distribute her forces and achieve success in both fields. In her family, everyone is given enough attention, and her professional activities are carefully planned, which allows her to use her own energy rationally.
Fanaticism is as alien to a wise woman as neglect of duties. It is difficult for her to fully devote herself to any one activity, but she will not do something half-heartedly.
6. She always looks good.
Regardless of external data, a wise woman knows how to present herself in a favorable light and emphasize her dignity. However, she does not idealize her own appearance, knows her strengths and weaknesses and knows how to use it. Such a woman understands how important it is to take care of herself, and always finds an opportunity to take time for herself. At the same time, she does not try with all her might to maintain her attractiveness, abusing cosmetic procedures, but with dignity accepts all the “signs of the times” and therefore looks great even in old age.
The main secret of her charm is not an impeccable appearance, but a unique charm, inner strength and tenderness. This is what allows her, regardless of age and appearance, to attract others.
about the author
Ksenia Ulyanova – psychologist, coach, author of trainings on time management, balance and motivation. More on her…
Which woman is considered attractive? Confident, feminine, sexy, soft, understanding, energetic – modern women’s magazines can suggest hundreds of epithets. And often we go against ourselves to meet the requirements.
We have been taught for a long time that relationships need to be worked on, that marriage is built on compromises, that a woman should be wise, which means that she should give in and adjust to a man. But can you be happy by giving up yourself and your desires?